The Sarah Sutra Submission Box is Open
My exclusive Q&A submission for paid subscribers.
Sex and Style is written by Certified Sexologist and Somatic Sex Coach Sarah Ward. This is intended as general advice. If you’d like a personalized guidance, I’d be honored to connect with you in a discovery session.
When it comes to conversations about sex, desire, infidelity, and trauma, you may not know who you can trust to reveal your most intimate desires. I hear this often from people: “There’s literally no one else I can talk to about this.”
If you’re here at Sex and Style, chances are that you’re seeking something. You may be carrying questions about sex, partnership, self-pleasure, awakening—and what it really means to feel at home in your body.
My friend, you are in the right place.
Welcome to The Sarah Sutra.
This is where paid subscribers get to ask the raw, honest stuff that doesn’t usually have a safe place to land.
🖤 Ask anonymously via the form below.
🖤 My answers will be available to all readers, but only paid subscribers can ask.
Here’s how it works:
Submit your burning questions
I’ll curate and respond to a selection in a future post
All questions will be posed anonymously
I’ll respond with care, directness, and nuance
My areas of expertise:
Sex, love, intimacy, and romantic relationships
Eroticism, desire, and the Erotic Blueprints™
Sacred sexuality and neo-Tantra
Religious trauma and decolonization in the bedroom
Sensual embodiment and nervous system repair
Ritual and sacred space
Personal style, shopping, and wardrobe styling (yes, it’s all connected)
Here’s what’s welcome:
Questions about solo or partnered sex
Navigating libido, shame, or shutdown
Awakening your sensuality after loss, kids, religion, heartbreak
Pleasure practices and embodiment tools
Communicating what you want (and surviving the vulnerability of it)
Style, self-expression, body image
Anything else that feels too taboo to ask out loud
Curious what that looks like? Check out the last Ask Me Anything👇
Here’s what I won’t answer:
🚫 Anything violating someone else’s consent
🚫 Requests for personalized coaching or therapy-level support
🚫 Creeper stuff, dick pics, or disrespect (I block fast and permanently)
This is a safe, supportive space for bold questions and honest reflection. If a question lands outside my scope or feels misaligned, I won’t answer it.
You’re welcome to bring your curiosity, your grief, your pleasure, and your edge.
Submit your question one of three ways:
If you’re a free subscriber, consider upgrading to a monthly $8/mo or annual $80/year paid subscription to submit your question today!