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Sarina Zoe's avatar

Fascinating and hilarious! I love the humour you bring to sex and sexuality 👏🏽

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Sarah Ward's avatar

I'm so delighted that it resonates with you, Sarina! It's such an endlessly fascinating topic. Thanks for being here, love.

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Gabriel Baker's avatar

Always so informative I thoroughly enjoy reading your works.

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Sarah Ward's avatar

Thanks for saying so, Gabriel. Glad to have you here.

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Gabriel Baker's avatar

Me too, very intriguing stuff to say the least

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Bill Suefert's avatar

That’s right the brain is the biggest sex and sexual organ and the better to receive the proper love and care!

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Sarah Ward's avatar

Truly, Bill! Our big, throbbing, wet brains definitely set us apart from other mammals! Thanks for being here.

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Bill Suefert's avatar

Thank you my friend for writing!

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Diary Of A Relationship Coach's avatar

Loved this! Learned a bit and in a witty way! I will never again think about penis size the same 😉

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Sarah Ward's avatar

I'm so glad that you enjoyed this piece! It's a pleasure to have you here.

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Bosschaerts Study's avatar

Great piece! From the title tease to the wrap up - all big winners.

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Sarah Ward's avatar

Thank you kindly, Bosschaerts! Big winners indeed 😉

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Janine Agoglia's avatar

That was awesome, thanks for taking us on this ride! The best.

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Sarah Ward's avatar

Thanks for joining me on this phallic tour of the primate kingdom, Janine! So fun.

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Anyeri's avatar

So fascinating! Was literally thinking about this today at work and then bam there was your blog post explaining it!!!

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Sarah Ward's avatar

Look at that synchronicity! Love how we were tuned into the same sexy wavelength! 🤯

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K Kal's avatar

So why do humans have the largest penis among primates? It seems that in humans, large penises may drive the mating competitive advantage... Like large testicle in chimps. My hypothesis : human females like big dicks! Large Penises only serve the purpose of pleasing women? Any other ideas?

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Sarah Ward's avatar

I agree, K Kal! That seems to be my takeaway as well. I talk about the evolutionary science to support that here as well in case you'd like to explore further:

https://sarahwardco.substack.com/p/what-penis-size-has-to-do-with-monogamy

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The Recursivist's avatar

Really interesting rundown, but I noticed how much the term ‘species’ is doing work here—especially when humans, bonobos, and orangutans all land in different narrative roles. Makes me wonder if ‘species’ is just a placeholder we reach for when the boundaries get too blurry to name directly.

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Sarah Ward's avatar

Thanks for chiming in. 'Species' is absolutely doing a lot of leg work here — a neat name for something that is much messier and more interconnected between us and our cousins than the clean lines would have us think. Language draws sharper lines than biology does.

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Sarah Ward's avatar

Hi there, glad that you enjoyed this piece.

There are just so many ways to bring pleasure to a body, size is one of them. But some of the best sex I've had is with open-hearted men that have average size penises.

I'd be so curious to hear about your experiences in the swinger lifestyle if you'd be open to sharing.

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Therese's avatar

It's too bad, Brian, that you can't just have a little fun and learn a few things. Or choose not to read something that doesn't interest you.

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Sarah Ward's avatar

Couldn't have said it better myself, Therese. Thanks for your presence here.

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PostPlandemicChronicles's avatar

Bro, women are perpetual children, did you not know that.

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