I'm looking for a couple to coach... for FREE
There's no catch. Is that you and your partner? Apply below!
There's a few exciting things happening in the coming weeks! If you live in the Albuquerque, New Mexico area, I invite you to come by Flyby Provisions in Downtown ABQ next Sunday, February 11 for a mini coaching session with me!
This is part of the Flyby is for Lovers Valentines pop-up shop. With amazing local vendors, you have incredible services at your fingertips: permanent jewelry, a photo booth, flash tattoos, tooth gems, and hair glitter, custom valentines and florals!
If you haven’t had a chance to explore Flyby Provisions yet, you’re in luck! They have a thoughtfully curated line-up of goods, making it one of my go-to’s for gifts.
So, regardless of your relationship status, I invite you to come by and bring your sex and style questions. I’ll happily hold space for you, support you as you live your way into your own answers, and send you away with a custom hand-lettered print that encapsulates our session. Hang it somewhere you see daily to remind you how worthy of love you inherently are, just the way you are. Sessions will be open on Sunday between 10am and 1pm by donation.
Calling Couples for Coaching!
This year, I’m augmenting my coaching offerings by becoming a certified Erotic Blueprints Coach. If you haven’t heard of this yet, the Erotic Blueprint test is basically a Myers-Briggs type test for eroticism, helping people to understand their primary type, and their partner’s type as well. If you haven’t taken their test yet, do that now!
There’s a free and paid test: the paid one sends you a 28-page report to deepen your understanding about your type, how you love, and your language of eroticism.
As Esther Perel says:
“Tell me how you were loved, and I’ll tell you how you make love.”
Because so many of us never got proper sex education, we struggle to communicate about this highly charged topic. Furthermore, we often buy into the belief systems that there must be something wrong with us because of [fill in the blank], and if we aren’t having mind-blowing sex, we must not be sexually compatible with our partners.
These are myths.
You are inherently whole, just the way you are.
If you fell in love with someone who spoke French, would you not learn their native tongue? There are different ways that each of us show up erotically and and you can learn to speak the language of your lover. Let me show you how.
As I certify in the Erotic Blueprints methodology, I’m looking for a couple to coach for free.
(Yes. You read that right.)
We will go through 8 sessions, starting Spring 2024 through early summer, meeting bi-weekly for 90-minute sessions
This will also include the Erotic Blueprints Course (valued at $1990) and Erotic Freedom Club ($69/month) for free
In between sessions, there will be embodied homework (let’s be honest, playwork) that allows you to experience this transformation in your body. It’s one thing to know something. It’s something entirely different to embody it.
This experience is valued at over $4000!
Does this sound like just what you and your partner need? Click below to apply! A couple will be selected in the spring.
PS: If you are an individual person that is interested in going through this experience, I encourage you to apply as well! You don’t have to wait to be in relationship to learn about your eroticism!
The Pleasure Collective has my heart
A week ago today, The Pleasure Collective launched and is everything I hoped it would be. We have women from different countries, different states, different ethnicities, and different religious upbringings. As one woman shared her unique story, another woman would say, “Me, too!”
Our stories are like seeds that constellate in those who hear them. Telling our stories is part of how we heal.
"What? You too? I thought I was the only one."
C.S. Lewis
We’re more similar than we are different.
It’s such an honor to be entrusted with facilitating this magic, sacred space. If you are someone who was interested in joining and weren’t able to make it this time around, please subscribe and stay tuned for the fall collective. More magic, coming soon!
It’s important for me to honor my weekly commitment of showing up here and providing value. This week I confess to not having my usual panache (once I process, I’ll share—more to come) so I am grateful to have news-worthy items. I’ll be back with more Sex and Style programming next week! In case you’re thirsty for more, scroll down for some other great reads.
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