Pleasure isn’t about crossing a finish line — it’s about enjoying the journey. Here’s three tips for you to bring more depth and delight to your turn-on.
It’s really interesting Sarah. The last one in particular resonates. In the last couple of weeks, I’ve twice failed to climax during sex with my wife. I’m not thinking about the reason for not climaxing, but both times my wife asked if I was ok… which she meant in a loving concerned way but as it was at the end of our play it drove additional anxiety.
She orgasmed both times and I enjoyed our play and especially helping her climax. I would have loved to orgasm as well but it didn’t happen and I was happy with that. But her question added a worry that wasn’t there!
Whereas your philosophy of not needing the orgasm itself to enjoy the fun…
For us because we’re currently in an informal schedule of only having sex Friday or Saturday nights (due to work and family life) I think it’s hard to relax, let go and not worry about the lack of climax.
Does that make sense? Sorry it’s a little stream on consciousness!
Definitely forwarding this to the goddesses in my life.🙏
Bless, Rich! You are such a conduit for pleasure on the planet.
No, that’s me blushing.🙄
Looking at all the flowers in my house a little differently today. Thanks for that. Great advice all around. Thanks for that too!
Yesss, here's to the reframe! Thanks for your kind words, Dana!
It’s really interesting Sarah. The last one in particular resonates. In the last couple of weeks, I’ve twice failed to climax during sex with my wife. I’m not thinking about the reason for not climaxing, but both times my wife asked if I was ok… which she meant in a loving concerned way but as it was at the end of our play it drove additional anxiety.
She orgasmed both times and I enjoyed our play and especially helping her climax. I would have loved to orgasm as well but it didn’t happen and I was happy with that. But her question added a worry that wasn’t there!
Whereas your philosophy of not needing the orgasm itself to enjoy the fun…
For us because we’re currently in an informal schedule of only having sex Friday or Saturday nights (due to work and family life) I think it’s hard to relax, let go and not worry about the lack of climax.
Does that make sense? Sorry it’s a little stream on consciousness!