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Ok just saw the ref above for She Comes First, I love this title, sold!

Mapping your body, ooo was this a specific practice? Intrigued

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She Comes First is a guide for men to encourage their partner to orgasm and has a big focus on oral sex, if memory serves.

Yes! Body mapping is an exercise that I guide clients through. Essentially for people who want to try it at home, you explore the whole body from head to toe. You're mapping your erotic landscape!

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Omg amazing! I haven’t heard of it before

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I think when it comes orgasms we can all learn no matter how old we are or how experienced we think we are. One thing I’ve learned is that’s always better through foreplay to make a woman/partner orgasm first. It sets the table for real ecstasy.

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Wise words, Peter! Thank you for chimimg in. Setting the table indeed! Are you familiar with She Comes First by Ian Kerner, PhD? He works off of a similar personal ethos.

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No I’m not Sarah I’ll have to look for it. Thanks for the recommendation.

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