MORgasm: You are capable of feeling more
Orgasms are evidence that the human body contains everything you need on the path to enlightenment.
We are walking, talking, self-sustaining transcendence vehicles. (Without an owner’s manual.)
The chemical cocktail released during sex is nothing short of profound: it can enhance the experience of being bonded with who you’re with, and a sense of overall well being in the world. (Even during a scary election year 😱)
I figured this out early on as I mapped my body. (And then felt tremendous shame — thanks patriarchy! — and spent the next decade or two unraveling it.) The first time I had sex, I orgasmed and fell hook, line, and sinker.
Don’t hate me, but even despite the shame I’ve had to unpack, I have always been orgasmic. I’ve never faked it. Orgasms have gotten even better as I age. They are deeper. They last longer. They make me feel like I’m as expansive as the night sky.
I studied tantric sacred sexuality to become a Somatic Sex Coach and it blew the roof off what was possible. I learned to masterfully play the instrument of my body. (These teachings are woven throughout Sex and Style. Lucky you!)
My body feels like a video game where I’m leveling up and discovering new ways to feel more.
And I know what it’s like to have orgasms go missing. One man I was with always finished, and I never did. When I brought my earnest desires to him, the way he responded made it feel like I didn’t matter.
No one should feel like their pleasure doesn’t matter.
In a recent article, Psychology Today reported how adults across all demographics are having less sex. And it’s impacting millennials the most; they are having sex 12% less than their parents.
When it comes to the bedroom, we can do better.
If you’ve always had a hunch that your body is capable of feeling more, you’re absolutely right.
Orgasms don’t just symbolize a physical release: they are the pinnacle of emotional intimacy. To orchestrate an orgasm for both partners during an encounter is an exceptional investment of time, attunement and energy.
Your body is the equivalent of having a Lamborghini — and using it to drive to the post office.
You are capable of so. much. more.
If you’re on a mission to unlock deeper pleasure, join me for MORgasm on Wednesday, July 31! This one-hour workshop held on National Orgasm Day is full of practical tools from a Somatic Sex Coach to help you and your partner reach new heights of pleasure. All those juicy lessons I learned along the way are being re-packaged, just for you!
Who’s MORgasm for?
Both single and partnered people will have a-ha moments in MORgasm! This will speak specifically to vulva owners, and will be beneficial for people who are in lovership with someone with a vulva. You’ll learn strategies that you can test drive to enjoy more pleasure.
The details:
Wednesday, July 31
5pm PST / 8pm EST
MORgasm will be facilitated over Zoom (link will be shared 24 hours before)
Free to paid subscribers — if you’ve been considering upgrading, now is a perfect time!
If you’d prefer to pay a la carte, tickets are available for $20
If you can’t attend live, email me or comment below with your questions for the Q&A session. A recording will be shared.
MORgasm is the first monthly workshop for paid subscribers! 🎉
Join us for MORgasm and reignite the spark in your sex life!
Ok just saw the ref above for She Comes First, I love this title, sold!
Mapping your body, ooo was this a specific practice? Intrigued
I think when it comes orgasms we can all learn no matter how old we are or how experienced we think we are. One thing I’ve learned is that’s always better through foreplay to make a woman/partner orgasm first. It sets the table for real ecstasy.