MORgasm: You are capable of feeling more

Orgasms are evidence that the human body contains everything you need on the path to enlightenment.

Sex and Style is written by Somatic Sex Coach Sarah Ward. This is intended as general advice. If you’d like a personalized guidance, I’d be honored to connect with you in a discovery session.

We are walking, talking, self-sustaining transcendence vehicles. (Without an owner’s manual.)

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The chemical cocktail released during sex is nothing short of profound: it can enhance the experience of being bonded with who you’re with, and a sense of overall well being in the world. (Even during a scary election year 😱)

I figured this out early on as I mapped my body. (And then felt tremendous shame — thanks patriarchy! — and spent the next decade or two unraveling it.) The first time I had sex, I orgasmed and fell hook, line, and sinker.

Don’t hate me, but even despite the shame I’ve had to unpack, I have always been orgasmic. I’ve never faked it. Orgasms have gotten even better as I age. They are deeper. They last longer. They make me feel like I’m as expansive as the night sky.

I studied tantric sacred sexuality to become a Somatic Sex Coach and it blew the roof off what was possible. I learned to masterfully play the instrument of my body. (These teachings are woven throughout Sex and Style. Lucky you!)

My body feels like a video game where I’m leveling up and discovering new ways to feel more.

And I know what it’s like to have orgasms go missing. One man I was with always finished, and I never did. When I brought my earnest desires to him, the way he responded made it feel like I didn’t matter.

No one should feel like their pleasure doesn’t matter.

In a recent article, Psychology Today reported how adults across all demographics are having less sex. And it’s impacting millennials the most; they are having sex 12% less than their parents.

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When it comes to the bedroom, we can do better.

If you’ve always had a hunch that your body is capable of feeling more, you’re absolutely right.

Orgasms don’t just symbolize a physical release: they are the pinnacle of emotional intimacy. To orchestrate an orgasm for both partners during an encounter is an exceptional investment of time, attunement and energy.

Your body is the equivalent of having a Lamborghini — and using it to drive to the post office.

You are capable of so. much. more.

If you’re on a mission to unlock deeper pleasure, join me for MORgasm on Wednesday, July 31! This one-hour workshop held on National Orgasm Day is full of practical tools from a Somatic Sex Coach to help you and your partner reach new heights of pleasure. All those juicy lessons I learned along the way are being re-packaged, just for you!

Who’s MORgasm for?

Both single and partnered people will have a-ha moments in MORgasm! This will speak specifically to vulva owners, and will be beneficial for people who are in lovership with someone with a vulva. You’ll learn strategies that you can test drive to enjoy more pleasure.

The details:

• Wednesday, July 31

• 5pm PST / 8pm EST

• MORgasm will be facilitated over Zoom (link will be shared 24 hours before)

• Free to paid subscribers — if you’ve been considering upgrading, now is a perfect time!

• If you’d prefer to pay a la carte, tickets are available for $20

If you can’t attend live, email me or comment below with your questions for the Q&A session. A recording will be shared.

MORgasm is the first monthly workshop for paid subscribers! 🎉

Join us for MORgasm and reignite the spark in your sex life!

Sex and Style is written by Certified Somatic Sex and Relationship Coach and Wardrobe Stylist, Sarah Ward. She has spent the last 20 years studying human sexuality and minted it in 2021, certifying in the VITA™ Methodology with Layla Martin and as an Erotic Blueprints™ Coach with Jaiya. For personalized support, schedule a free discovery call with Sarah.

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